This is a signal that they are a demanding and emotionally abusive person who will one day turn their anger on you.
Avoid someone with a big ego, filled with conceit, who tries to win favor by bragging about who they are or what they have.
This is a red flag that signals their low self-esteem and lack of emotional health.
Emotionally healthy people who have done some sort of personal development, by contrast, show a quiet confidence that says they can be intimate and committed despite their flaws.
" But, sadly, a few months later, your conversation changed to, "I can't believe he turned out to be so emotionally unavailable, and commitment-phobic." There are people who chronically meet and date individuals who, at first, seem so perfect for a warm, loving relationship. it's so easy to become intoxicated during that early infatuation stage when you meet someone who fits your pictures and seems like the perfect match. Our deep love for them can put us in denial of the fact that they are unavailable for an intimate, close relationship with us.
But when those same "in love" people take off their rose colored glasses, they realize the person they thought was Mr. ("He's so good-looking," or "What a gorgeous woman! If a person is serious about finding an emotionally available person for a committed partnership, there are whole categories of people who should be avoided: people living in another state, those who are still married or in love with someone else, and people with addictions - be it workaholics or drug addicts.
If you notice several of these signals in that person, it may be time to ask yourself why you're still in a relationship with them.The failures of their unsuccessful partnerships are always based on the faults of their exes.They lack the maturity to take responsibility for their mistakes in their past relationships.Then, there are those who are too afraid of taking the risk of falling in love because they have been hurt too much in their previous relationships.
Ironically, most emotionally unavailable people are easy to spot, quite transparent, showing you their true colors, right from the beginning.Once the relationship becomes too intimate, they'll cut and run. Look out for the person who is quick to flatter and compliment you without really knowing you. In a discussion about their past relationships, they will denigrate their former partners.